UNILAG Lecturer Who Raped Admission-Seeking Girl Has Been Called Out By Another Victim , 36trend.com
AUGUST 9, 2015
BY ADMIN
Lets call her Lady X…. She called me this Morning and
told me a chilling recount of
how Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa
the lecturer who is presently
being held for allegedly raping
an 18year old girl also tried same with her in his office.
She recounted how she
reported him to the school
authorities and nothing was
done…
Please read her story
with proof attached. If you are a pen pushed with
a Daily News and wish to
interview her,please call me
and i will give you her
contact…
She wishes to remain
anonymous for now but she
is already making moves to
re-open the case she filed last
year.
MY STORY:-As Told By Lady X This happened early 2014. I had finished
my project
with my supervisor a pleasant
middle aged woman but
because she retired before I
could get time off work to
have her sign off my score sheet I had been re-assigned
to Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa as
my new project supervisor.
I remembered immediately I
got off my first call from him
my roommate let's call her K
told me "omg! Is that guy
your supervisor?hian" it took
me a while to get around the meaning of her words.
My first impression about him
was he was a no nonsense
kinda lecturer.
I walked into
the office he was at the bus
admin complex top floor he
seemed to be sharing an office with another lecturer.
It was about 5pm I had a
paper that day.
He didn't
attend to me till the other
man was done, he sent me on
silly errands like "make this
photocopy", "go and buy me tom tom" all this continued till
about 8pm after waiting for
like forever he attended to
me, glanced at my work and
said it was rubbish and
couldn't believe my former supervisor who happened to
be a professor could approve
such nonsense I appealed to
him that it was exam period I
couldn't possibly work on my
project from the scratch and still meet the deadline for
submission so I begged him to
let me make corrections
instead.
He said someone has done the
same topic 2/3 years back and
he would easily report me to
the authorities that I copied
which would guarantee I've
an extra year.
He went on and on ,he had me believe the
work was so bad assuring me
that I couldn't escape an extra
year he even said he would
report me for plagiarism
because I forgot to site a particular reference.
At some
point he said I shouldn't
bother with correcting the
work that he's submitting my
name to Admin with the
batch of students to be carried over next year, I was stoned.
After begging him over and
over to make me correct
[mostly typographical errors]
he finally agreed, my mind
was finally at rest and I
thanked him, as I made to leave he looked at me and
was like 'is that how to say
thank you?' I then went on
both knees thanking him
profusely "thank you sir",
"God bless you sir"…. While I was at it he was closing the
blinds of the office and he
turned off the A/C [the office
was very cold] like he was
going to wrap up for the day,
he was clearing the sofa that had other peoples projects
next thing I know he locks
the door… I was stilling trying to wrap
my head around him locking
the door when he dragged
me; Stella I was a size 12 5"4
then, I am big, this guy is
strong ,he just grabbed my boobs and my arms to his
manhood rubbing it, next
thing He was forcefully trying
to remove my clothes, when I
tried to force myself off his
grip he got more aggressive when I tried to scream he got
even more aggressive.
That place is isolated and quiet
at night [the office is opposite
UNILAG guesthouse by the sea
side]
I figured screaming was
a waste of time and being
forceful wasn't getting anywhere so I lay still
begging, then I began to cry
"I'm asthmatic I can't
breathe" so I pretended to
have an attack then he
stopped he started apologising he said it was a mistake and
he's usually not like that and
he's sorry then he started
again apologising that he's
hard, okay he doesn't want
sex again that I should just give him a hand job, I said I
needed air that he should
please open the door [acting
like I was about to faint], he
then finally opened the door
apologising, I rushed out and I was still acting like I was
short of breath and fainting
with plenty tears in my eyes. He later called me apologising
that he doesn't know what
got over him, it was a
mistake etc.
I told my best
friend, i was in complete
shock ,all my years in UNILAG I had never experienced such,
i was so stunned that day i
lost my bag.
He said we should set him up
And I am like "no all I want is
to just graduate in peace"
because when the matter gets
to the authorities now it is
another thing he would say…. he can even say we are
cultists.
I started using different
strategies when visiting his
office like going with friends,
he always says he is not
around [because from up he
could see people down] he would later call me to say
"you think you are smart abi,
you are playing with your
graduation".
On another occasion I had to
have him sign my score sheet
and i thought to my that this
was broad daylight and what
could possibly happen? I was wrong! A lecture was going on the
floor before and the noise
from the mega phone clouded
the office and this man started
again.
I was furious and I
started to insult him when he was trying to pin me down
and as we were dragging my
shirt tore and as I was
shouting he pushed me.
I stormed out and he was
shouting "get out of my
office", "you can't graduate i
promise you".
This time I had had it and I
was going to the authorities,
when I got downstairs I met
a friend who happened to be a
staff and he saw how mad I
was and I narrated all that had happened.
we went to faculty of bus
admin and reported to some
lecturers they then followed
me to his office and met with
him.
If you see the way this man
painted me black, he denied
what happened he almost
denied knowing me sef in fact
he was mumbling my name
like we had just met 5min ago.
"He said you know how
these students can get" the
way he turned the story
around I know deep down
they knew he was lying but
they had to be diplomatic they asked me to do my
corrections and forget the
matter.
Baruwa then started stalking
me. I remember after an exam
while hanging with a friend
of mine he called my number
saying something like "is that
your boyfriend? Is it because
of him you are doing shakara for me" I was disgusted, I
couldn't see him but
obviously he could see me.
This happened on 2 separate
occasions. Stella this man frustrated me
because it was a finished
project before I was assigned
to him, he made me redo and
retype, photocopy, bind
about 3 times over and every given time he says "you just
like punishing yourself" with
a snare.
I felt bullied. it was one thing for a lecturer
to ask a student out, it was a
different thing entirely to
manipulate me into sleeping
with you and physically and
emotionally harassing me in the process.
When he saw I was adamant
he held on to my score sheet
without which I couldn't
submit my project or do my
defence.
He was eager to
break me but when I had had enough I reported to the
authorities and at that point I
was introduced to another girl
by my class governor who
had complained about this
same Baruwa man.
I've attached a copy of the
handwritten letter I
submitted to the authorities
and I had to keep it short and
brief.
The other girls he
sexually harassed [my roommate and the other girl]
didn't show up on the day of
the report and my class
governor didn't want to have
anything to do with the case
too so i flew solo.
I guess everybody was afraid
of the consequences of
reporting a lecturer.
The school promised to look
into the matter but I think
because of lack of concrete
evidence or other witnesses
the best they could do was
stop him from supervising student's projects.
I'm not saying he raped or
didn't rape the girl but the
way he's going on about it
being consensual and sounding
all believable made me
remember when I had those lecturers go meet him and he
turned the tables around and
got them all confused.
What I do know for sure is
though an 18 year old is an
adult one cannot expect her to
show any more than the
decent level of tact she did to
avoid an abuser as experienced as Baruwa. She
shouldn't be expected to
know how to use Witt or tact
to manoeuvre her way
around an experienced
molester who obviously emotionally and
psychologically abuses his
victims and pounces on them
through a little perceived
window of opportunity
. The other girls Baruwa abused
that were too afraid to speak
up are way older and more
experienced than her.
Akinfolarin Baruwa sexually
harasses like a tutored glutton, If she gave even a
little level of physical
resistance then SHE WAS
RAPED. To the victim this is for you!..I
am coming out to tell my
story because of you! Many Thanks Stella for giving
me this platform and God
bless. LADY X
BY ADMIN
Lets call her Lady X…. She called me this Morning and
told me a chilling recount of
how Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa
the lecturer who is presently
being held for allegedly raping
an 18year old girl also tried same with her in his office.
She recounted how she
reported him to the school
authorities and nothing was
done…
Please read her story
with proof attached. If you are a pen pushed with
a Daily News and wish to
interview her,please call me
and i will give you her
contact…
She wishes to remain
anonymous for now but she
is already making moves to
re-open the case she filed last
year.
MY STORY:-As Told By Lady X This happened early 2014. I had finished
my project
with my supervisor a pleasant
middle aged woman but
because she retired before I
could get time off work to
have her sign off my score sheet I had been re-assigned
to Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa as
my new project supervisor.
I remembered immediately I
got off my first call from him
my roommate let's call her K
told me "omg! Is that guy
your supervisor?hian" it took
me a while to get around the meaning of her words.
My first impression about him
was he was a no nonsense
kinda lecturer.
I walked into
the office he was at the bus
admin complex top floor he
seemed to be sharing an office with another lecturer.
It was about 5pm I had a
paper that day.
He didn't
attend to me till the other
man was done, he sent me on
silly errands like "make this
photocopy", "go and buy me tom tom" all this continued till
about 8pm after waiting for
like forever he attended to
me, glanced at my work and
said it was rubbish and
couldn't believe my former supervisor who happened to
be a professor could approve
such nonsense I appealed to
him that it was exam period I
couldn't possibly work on my
project from the scratch and still meet the deadline for
submission so I begged him to
let me make corrections
instead.
He said someone has done the
same topic 2/3 years back and
he would easily report me to
the authorities that I copied
which would guarantee I've
an extra year.
He went on and on ,he had me believe the
work was so bad assuring me
that I couldn't escape an extra
year he even said he would
report me for plagiarism
because I forgot to site a particular reference.
At some
point he said I shouldn't
bother with correcting the
work that he's submitting my
name to Admin with the
batch of students to be carried over next year, I was stoned.
After begging him over and
over to make me correct
[mostly typographical errors]
he finally agreed, my mind
was finally at rest and I
thanked him, as I made to leave he looked at me and
was like 'is that how to say
thank you?' I then went on
both knees thanking him
profusely "thank you sir",
"God bless you sir"…. While I was at it he was closing the
blinds of the office and he
turned off the A/C [the office
was very cold] like he was
going to wrap up for the day,
he was clearing the sofa that had other peoples projects
next thing I know he locks
the door… I was stilling trying to wrap
my head around him locking
the door when he dragged
me; Stella I was a size 12 5"4
then, I am big, this guy is
strong ,he just grabbed my boobs and my arms to his
manhood rubbing it, next
thing He was forcefully trying
to remove my clothes, when I
tried to force myself off his
grip he got more aggressive when I tried to scream he got
even more aggressive.
That place is isolated and quiet
at night [the office is opposite
UNILAG guesthouse by the sea
side]
I figured screaming was
a waste of time and being
forceful wasn't getting anywhere so I lay still
begging, then I began to cry
"I'm asthmatic I can't
breathe" so I pretended to
have an attack then he
stopped he started apologising he said it was a mistake and
he's usually not like that and
he's sorry then he started
again apologising that he's
hard, okay he doesn't want
sex again that I should just give him a hand job, I said I
needed air that he should
please open the door [acting
like I was about to faint], he
then finally opened the door
apologising, I rushed out and I was still acting like I was
short of breath and fainting
with plenty tears in my eyes. He later called me apologising
that he doesn't know what
got over him, it was a
mistake etc.
I told my best
friend, i was in complete
shock ,all my years in UNILAG I had never experienced such,
i was so stunned that day i
lost my bag.
He said we should set him up
And I am like "no all I want is
to just graduate in peace"
because when the matter gets
to the authorities now it is
another thing he would say…. he can even say we are
cultists.
I started using different
strategies when visiting his
office like going with friends,
he always says he is not
around [because from up he
could see people down] he would later call me to say
"you think you are smart abi,
you are playing with your
graduation".
On another occasion I had to
have him sign my score sheet
and i thought to my that this
was broad daylight and what
could possibly happen? I was wrong! A lecture was going on the
floor before and the noise
from the mega phone clouded
the office and this man started
again.
I was furious and I
started to insult him when he was trying to pin me down
and as we were dragging my
shirt tore and as I was
shouting he pushed me.
I stormed out and he was
shouting "get out of my
office", "you can't graduate i
promise you".
This time I had had it and I
was going to the authorities,
when I got downstairs I met
a friend who happened to be a
staff and he saw how mad I
was and I narrated all that had happened.
we went to faculty of bus
admin and reported to some
lecturers they then followed
me to his office and met with
him.
If you see the way this man
painted me black, he denied
what happened he almost
denied knowing me sef in fact
he was mumbling my name
like we had just met 5min ago.
"He said you know how
these students can get" the
way he turned the story
around I know deep down
they knew he was lying but
they had to be diplomatic they asked me to do my
corrections and forget the
matter.
Baruwa then started stalking
me. I remember after an exam
while hanging with a friend
of mine he called my number
saying something like "is that
your boyfriend? Is it because
of him you are doing shakara for me" I was disgusted, I
couldn't see him but
obviously he could see me.
This happened on 2 separate
occasions. Stella this man frustrated me
because it was a finished
project before I was assigned
to him, he made me redo and
retype, photocopy, bind
about 3 times over and every given time he says "you just
like punishing yourself" with
a snare.
I felt bullied. it was one thing for a lecturer
to ask a student out, it was a
different thing entirely to
manipulate me into sleeping
with you and physically and
emotionally harassing me in the process.
When he saw I was adamant
he held on to my score sheet
without which I couldn't
submit my project or do my
defence.
He was eager to
break me but when I had had enough I reported to the
authorities and at that point I
was introduced to another girl
by my class governor who
had complained about this
same Baruwa man.
I've attached a copy of the
handwritten letter I
submitted to the authorities
and I had to keep it short and
brief.
The other girls he
sexually harassed [my roommate and the other girl]
didn't show up on the day of
the report and my class
governor didn't want to have
anything to do with the case
too so i flew solo.
I guess everybody was afraid
of the consequences of
reporting a lecturer.
The school promised to look
into the matter but I think
because of lack of concrete
evidence or other witnesses
the best they could do was
stop him from supervising student's projects.
I'm not saying he raped or
didn't rape the girl but the
way he's going on about it
being consensual and sounding
all believable made me
remember when I had those lecturers go meet him and he
turned the tables around and
got them all confused.
What I do know for sure is
though an 18 year old is an
adult one cannot expect her to
show any more than the
decent level of tact she did to
avoid an abuser as experienced as Baruwa. She
shouldn't be expected to
know how to use Witt or tact
to manoeuvre her way
around an experienced
molester who obviously emotionally and
psychologically abuses his
victims and pounces on them
through a little perceived
window of opportunity
. The other girls Baruwa abused
that were too afraid to speak
up are way older and more
experienced than her.
Akinfolarin Baruwa sexually
harasses like a tutored glutton, If she gave even a
little level of physical
resistance then SHE WAS
RAPED. To the victim this is for you!..I
am coming out to tell my
story because of you! Many Thanks Stella for giving
me this platform and God
bless. LADY X
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